At what point in time should your relationship be defined? Well if you are asking the question then it is probably now. At some point in the relationship you need to commit to one another enough that you become mutually exclusive. Sometimes the guy may ask you to 'be his girlfriend' and other times it just happens and he might introduce you to his friends as his girlfriend.
When a relationship is new it isn't easy to define it as there is always the risk of rejection. On some occasions, people will enter into a relationship just for a good time with no intention of anything more serious and in this situation it isn't really defined as anything. At some point, the relationship will either end or move on to become more serious. If you have entered into a relationship on a 'no strings attached' basis, then it can be difficult to take the step to change that into a more defined relationship. If the relationship has any hope of building a future together then it needs a change to grow and develop and when it does then it needs to be defined.
When a relationship is new it isn't easy to define it as there is always the risk of rejection. On some occasions, people will enter into a relationship just for a good time with no intention of anything more serious and in this situation it isn't really defined as anything. At some point, the relationship will either end or move on to become more serious. If you have entered into a relationship on a 'no strings attached' basis, then it can be difficult to take the step to change that into a more defined relationship. If the relationship has any hope of building a future together then it needs a change to grow and develop and when it does then it needs to be defined.

